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What is the phobia name for the fear of living?
For example fear of dying Thanatophobia

How do you live with (Globophobia) fear of balloons?
If I am alone I can blow up balloon & even hold the balloon and even play with it.But when I am around people I get scared that they will pop the balloon.

Do you live in fear of shark attacks?
Author Michael Fumento, in his book The Myth of Heterosexual AIDS, offers substantial evidence that white, middle class, non IV drugabuser heterosexuals are in less danger of contracting AIDS thru non anal, sexual intercourse than they are of dying from shark attacks, being hit by lightning, or accidentally drowning in the bathtub. The book is very well referenced and documented. The book was reviewed by the Journal of the American Medical Assn as " the best single source available to enable heterosexual persons to assess their personal risk." JUST CDC FIGURESCaucasians made up 40.6 % of all US cases in 2006Of those 16.0 % were heterosexualsThat means just 6.4 % of all cases were Caucasian Heterosexuals.Of those 18.567 % were female or about 1 % of the total.To do the maths for yourself go to cdc.gov hiv topics surveillance resources reports 2005report table3.htm

How do I get over my fear to live and be happy not be affaird of dying?
It sounds rediculous and paranoid but I can't relax and enjoy my life because I always wake up with this insaciable feeling to hate myself. I can't open up and grow into my own because my mind stops me. I feed on insecurities and can't just let go, and I fear once I do let go I'll fall. I've never met anyone else with these feelings. So I feel really alone... I don't like to share it because I see others happy and I want that happiness around me and within me. But my hands shake and my stomach hurts I'll eat even to close of my mind... and fight a battle with myself I know I can't win. I just want to live and not regret everything I do. How does one learn to stop judging themselves and just enjoy being on this earth?

I live in a ruff area, i dont own alot, cept my computer, im tryin to move, i keep livin with the fear of what
if i get burgalled and end up with NOTHING. the few possessions i have taken away from me? its a real strong fear i have, how can i manage it? i had a nightmare the other night where i lived in a strange flat in a strange area, all my family had died or didnt exist, my mom and dad had died, and i had nothing and nobody. it really freaked me out. help. im a 29 year old male

Is anyone else living with the fear of seeing vomit?
I know this question has been asked but I didn't get a chance to tell my story. First let me say i'm so happy to know that the fear I've had for years has a name. Everyone else called it my crazy phobia. This fear takes over my life everyday. I won't watch a movie until someone else has seen it first and let's me know if it had vomit or not. I don't watch Mtv because they also show throw up. When people open there car doors I automatically think there gonna throw up. I look for throw up in parking lots. I have so much more but so limited space. I'm sick of this fear. I have 1 child and thank God I never threw up not one time. I did get morning sickness in the morning but that was it. I did throw up in 2004 after being food poisoined but I'm still scared of it. I want to go to a therapist because everyone I tell thinks I'm psycho. i'm just so glad to know i'm not alone. If anyone wants to talk about it feel free to email me. Thanks

Why do i live in fear of something bad happening to me?
Everyday i wake up thinking " Is today the day it is going to happen?" . I imagine things happening like someone is going to break into my home and rape me or kill me or hurt my kids. I fear for my husband when he goes to work that something is going to happen to him, that someone is going to hurt him. I leave my house and feel like i will get into a car accident and die. I fear if something happens i will never get to say goodbye to my loved ones. I fear losing a family member especially my parents, i think i would go crazy if that happened. I fear my husband will die and the heartbreak will be the end of me too. I fear something will happen to my baby girls and i would be lost. I get scared and cry and cant sleep at night. I get paranoid at night when my husband is at home and walk around my house with a baseball bat and knife waiting for " it" something to happen. It is consuming me and i rarely go outside now... i get migranes thinking about it. Im scared.

Fear of people living in my basement?
i have this totally irrational fear of people living in my basement. i get so scared eveytime i leave my room at night, especially if i go downstairs and COMPLEATLY if i go into the basement. like im afariad ppl will jump out and hurt kill me. i went into the basement 10 min ago to get water and i was shaking. why do i have such an odd phoibia?

Do you live in constant fear of a cancer recurrence?
I am 27 years old and last year at the age of 26 i was diagnosed with breast cancer. I am now cancer free, but i am so terrified and afraid of having a recurrence that i can't even be happy about being cancer free. I have talked with my family and a close friend of mine and they all tell me that i should think more positively and stop worrying over things that i have to control over and cannot do anything about. They say even if i do have recurrence there is nothing i can do and that being depressed about it will not change anything. And that i need to just move on with my life. I am afraid that once i try doing this, i will then have a recurrence and be completely devasted. My doctor has told me that if it comes back again that it will be uncurable. i am just the type of person who just don't like to give my hopes up.

A split second of unreality. Im living in fear.?
It all happened when i sat on a chair one night and i felt a second of unreality. I feel like i wasn't myself. I felt like my spirit soul whatever inside me was leaving me. I got really scared but the feeling is quite hard to describe, so i couldnt tell my parents about it. This is the nearest description i can give. Does anyone know anything about this illness of mine?

I do have bad anxiety and mood dips have had most of my life, i live with the worry and fear of my mum passing
on and leavin me. my mum is the closest one to me in this world, ive been very close to her al my life. and in my time of mental crisis theres been no one else except her, to comfort and reassure me. shes in her 50s now and i no theres goin to come a point that shes goin to pass on and leave me, and im absolutley terrified about this and what i'll do..i dont think i could cope in this world without her, im 29, im lonely, dont have a girlfriend, i live alone in a bad neighborr hood. and i want to be in a better time and place i dont like where i live now, i dont feel at peace, but moving takes time. to be in nice quiet surroundings with a partner who loved me would help my mental agony and low moods and anxiety. but you have to have money to live in a nice area..and ive never worked and am on benefits. so i think its going to immensley difficult to reach my goals....when i get upset and tell my mum my fears of her passing an everything else. she tells me please dont worry because it upsshe says dont worry because it upsets her greatly and by the time she comes to leave me hopefully ill have a partner by myside and ill be stronger...but i still worry about all this...